Anna Koldunova

When we talk about ourselves, we normally either praise or criticize. The former communicates vanity and pride; the latter weak-minded lack of confidence. Both discredit reputations, sabotage projects, and make the people listening uncomfortable. Much better to never talk about ourselves—in personal conversations; and, even more importantly, if in a group or public setting. For similar reasons, also best to not talk about someone part of the group and listening.